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Obituaries

Sept. 29, 2011

 

HELENA ANDERSON BLAIR

Helena Anderson Blair (Courtesy photo)

Helena Anderson Blair, 89, died peacefully on Friday, Sept. 23, 2011, in Fletcher Allen Health Care surrounded in spirit and person by her loving family. She has left us with a profound sense of love and her presence here will never leave the hearts of those she touched. She was born in West Glover in 1921, to Ellen Josephine Comer and Fern Augustine Anderson. Raised on a hilltop farm at a time of horse drawn wagons and without electricity or plumbing, she began her trek in life. She attended school in West Glover, graduated high school from Craftsbury Academy in 1939 and the University of Vermont in 1943. At UVM, Helena was involved with many student groups and organizations and was president of the Newman Club. She was a member of the Women’s Honorary Society, known as Mortar Board, comprised of women who were recognized for outstanding service, scholarship, leadership, character and executive ability. She helped recruit Eleanor Roosevelt to speak at UVM and was inducted into “Who’s Who” among students in American universities and colleges. After graduation, Helena became a teacher and taught chemistry, biology and home economics at Hartford High School in White River Junction. After marriage, she taught children in the same one-room grade school she attended as a child, the Beach School in West Glover. Little did she know at that time that with the birth of her eight children she would have a one-room classroom of her own! In 1945 she married Paul Emile Blair, a farmer, and together they owned farms in W. Glover, Panton and Williston at Taft’s Corner. This is where they settled to raise their children, to teach them the value of hard work, and the importance of religion with Catechism every Saturday. As a family, they attended the Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Williston. In 1960, a devastating barn fire occurred. This catastrophe was extremely difficult to recover from. Since Paul and Helena both loved dairy farming and the farm family life for their children, they built a new loose-housing barn, and started anew. They became active members of the National Farmers Organization, whose goal was to bring fair pricing to all farmers. To help with the effort, they would pick up the calves and beef from local NFO farmers, transport them to a holding area at their farm, where they would subsequently be sold to the buyer with the highest bid. In addition, Helena became co-editor of the Vermont NFO News. She was a woman of action! Years later, in 1978, Paul and Helena stopped farming and auctioned the equipment and herd. Soon thereafter, Helena was the driving force in the land development of the family farm. She attended countless local and state planning meetings to acquire the permits so the lots could be sold. The project came to be called Blair Park, the first major commercial development in Williston. It was during those years that Helena also became a landlady and enjoyed the work right up until her death. She worked tirelessly with joy as she felt fortunate to be able to provide folks a very nice and clean place to live — one that she herself would live in. One of her favorite mottos was, “I shall pass through this world but once. Any good that I can do, or any kindness that I can show another human being, let me do it now and not defer it. For I shall not pass this way again.” The same perseverance and indomitable character that propelled her though life as a teacher, wife, mother, dairy farmer, landlady, political activist, Blair Park developer, and human rights activist led to her involvement in the passage of Vermont’s historical Civil Union legislation. Beginning in the 1970s, Helena was a grass roots advocate of gay and lesbian rights. She mailed several letters to state legislators urging them to support the first of its kind, the proposed civil union law. Sen. James Leddy chose one of them and read it on the Senate floor, which then became a news item that spread all across the country. It had an historical, emotional and political impact and led to the passage of H.847, Vermont’s Civil Union Law. Within this same pursuit, she worked with Vermont Freedom to Marry. Helena is survived by her children, Francis, Ronald and wife, Janet, Carol, Rose and husband, Daniel, Mark, Lawrence, Michael and wife, Kathy; seven grandchildren, Scott, Lisa, Dalys, Becky, Meghan, Matthew, and Christy; five great-grandchildren, Alex and Ellie, Tyler, Benjamin, and Marina; brothers, Bill, Kenneth, and John; sister, Lenore; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husband, Paul; daughter, Corena; brothers, Irvin and Dean; sister, Ardell; and nephew, Stephen. Helena was someone that many could identify with, always with a quiet strength, generous heart and dignity. She will always be remembered as being kind to the core, wise, generous, devoted to her beliefs and children, and with relentless humility and modesty. Visiting hours were Tuesday, Sept. 27, 2011, from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the LaVigne Funeral Home, 132 Main St. in Winooski. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Wednesday, Sept. 28, 2011, at 11 a.m. at Saint Francis Xavier Catholic Church in Winooski. Interment followed at East End Cemetery in Williston, the second cemetery on the left. Should friends desire, memorial contributions may be made to Helena’s propitious church, Saint Francis Xavier Church, 3 St. Peter Street, Winooski, Vt. 05404, (802) 655-2290; Committee on Temporary Shelter, 179 S. Winooski Ave., Burlington, Vt. 05401, (802) 540-3084; Gay and Lesbian Advocacy Defenders, 30 Winter St., Boston, MA 02108, (617) 426-1350; or to a charity of one’s choice. In lieu of flowers, Helena would want you to buy flowers for a friend, fill out an organ donor card, or simply do a good deed for someone. So very many caring people have helped our Mother with her health challenges over the years. At the end of her life, special loving care was provided by Palliative Care at Fletcher Allen Health Care.

BEATRICE A. “MIMI” PROVOST

Beatrice A. “Mimi” Provost, 86, of Williston, died peacefully Tuesday, Sept. 20, 2011, at home with family by her side. She was born in Burlington on May 30, 1925, the daughter of Lucien and Ella (Belair) Boisvert. Beatrice graduated from Burlington High School, class of 1942. On Apr. 22, 1946, she married Daniel “Duke” Provost in St. Anthony’s Catholic Church. Duke predeceased her on Jan. 17, 2003. She was a lifetime member of St. Anthony’s Parish and was an active member of Catholic Daughters of America. Mimi is survived by her children, Jean Provost of Williston, Bob Provost of South Burlington, Michael and Carrie Provost of South Burlington, Dave and Debbi Provost of Williston, Shirley and James Beecher of Milton, Judy Barron of Richmond, John and Lisa Provost of Essex Junction, Jim and Vicki Provost of Williston and Gary and Diane Provost of South Burlington; 20 grandchildren, Lara, Anna, Lynsey, Aimee, Daniel, Miranda, Katie, Adam, Nicole, Jennifer, Jessica, Jason, Emilee, Shaun, Eric, Timothy, Rebecca, Tyler, Christopher and Kyle; nine great-grandchildren, Kierstin, Brady, Charlie, Cameron, Jacob, Caleb, Mia, Montgomery and Cooper; one brother, Roland (Charlene) Boisvert of Barre, two sisters-in-law, Marion (William) Blanchette and Marie Boisvert and many nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by two brothers and two sisters. Mimi’s family would like to give special thanks to Dr. Zail Berry and the PACE Staff, Dr. Joseph Haddock and Nurse Margaret Pratt. An exceptional thank you to Jean Provost, who gave up her own daily life to give our mother the best final days of her life. We are forever indebted and grateful to you. Visiting hours were held on Friday, Sept. 23, 2011, in the Ready Funeral Home, South Chapel, 261 Shelburne Road, Burlington. For those who wish, donations in her memory may be made to the Shrine Maple Sugar Bowl, PO Box 820, Lebanon, N.H. 03766-0800. A mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Saturday, Sept. 24, 2011, at 10 a.m. in St. Anthony Catholic Church and burial followed in Resurrection Park Cemetery, South Burlington. To send online condolences to her family, please visit www.readyfuneral.com.

 

Life in Williston

Reality TV drama doesn’t compare

Sept. 29, 2011

By Karen Wyman

 

Every now and then, I enjoy the luxury of watching a television show of my own choosing. That means no NFL Network, no Golf Channel, no Nickelodeon and no Disney Channel!

When this opportunity presents itself, I find it increasingly difficult to come across something to watch other than “reality” shows. These “real life” depictions are usually high on glamour and low on morals. I can’t help but wonder if this is what life is truly like these days, and if so, is this outrageous drama actually happening right here in Williston?

I would like to know where my invitations to lavish Sweet 16 parties rivaling the Royal wedding and to toddler birthday parties featuring live performances by The Wiggles are? I also am never at a restaurant when glasses are thrown across tables and women are pulling out each other’s hair extensions.

Maybe I am just naïve, but I believe Williston’s drama is much more refined and subtle. Would our relatively laid-back lifestyles fascinate people in Beverly Hills, the way their high-profile and fast paced lives mesmerize some of us? Perhaps we should develop a “Real Housewives of Williston” to see how many people tune in!

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want a spin-off of “The Jersey Shore” to be filmed at Lake Iroquois. I just want to show the rest of the country what we already know: Williston residents are real and genuine. For those of you who watch reality shows, you know these qualities aren’t high on producers’ minds. We could be the only show in the series where cows outnumber plastic surgeons, our dogs only wear clothes because it’s freezing, and moms don’t wear sequin dresses to playdates. Our weather may be more conducive to UGGs than Jimmy Choos, and there’s no Nordstrom’s for miles, but we still have plenty of style. If desired, we could purchase online designer fashions and accessories portrayed on these shows.

However, others could never buy what our version would showcase: family values and a strong sense of community. Maybe we don’t host $10,000 a plate charity events, but we know other ways to unite and help our neighbors in need. If you think bake sales and bottle drives aren’t riveting enough for TV, just think of the gossip and drama that could ensue when someone brings store-bought cookies to a bake sale! Imagine the cameras rolling during the annual pancake breakfast at the Williston Fire Department. The food is delicious, and the number of people young and old that comes together to support those who risk everything for us is truly inspiring. We could also film some explosive footage after the event, when I yet again have to explain to my indignant girls that the fire station is not a restaurant.

I have been told by some of my non-Williston friends that Williston is stereotyped as a bunch of SUV-driving soccer moms who have cookie-cutter houses and lives. I am guilty of the first two, however, make no mistake — my house and life is more cookie-clutter. Speaking of drivers, though, let’s have a camera capture some of our beloved citizens trying to navigate the rotary in town. My goodness people, it’s just a yield.

But I digress. In today’s reality shows, it is apparently considered the norm to look 20 years younger than you actually are and to be 20 pounds underweight. Home Botox parties may be all the rage on the West Coast, but my friends and I still prefer a good old Pampered Chef party (please allow me to reassess this opinion in a few years when I turn 40).

It also seems these shows revere people for having the largest home, the most exclusive interior designer and the hottest exotic cars. Too many of these shows only focus on one end of the spectrum and, in turn, leave out a large part of reality. As adults, we can easily recognize that most of these shows are scripted, but to the impressionable younger crowd, this is a conflicting dose of reality. I don’t want my girls to grow up thinking this is what should be valued. I am so glad they are being raised in this community, where we value education, hard work and volunteerism. Williston is a little bit country, a little bit city and it represents many aspects of the spectrum in regards to finances, religion, education and experiences. It is this balanced demographic that helps paint an authentic picture of life.

I don’t want to be so enthralled with the petty competition and self-indulgent behavior so abundant on TV today. How refreshing it would be to watch motivating reality, like our tight-knit community supporting and encouraging its members to succeed. I am going to make a conscious effort to stop getting drawn into these ridiculous dramas during my precious, fleeting control of the remote.

No more reality television will enter my home…unless, of course, Super Nanny would like to pay my household a visit!

 

Karen Wyman has been a Williston resident for six years, and lives with her husband and twin 4-year-old daughters.

Letters to the Editor

Sept. 29, 2011

 

Chuck Wagon staff thanks community

 

We wanted to thank you for your generous support of the Williston Chuck Wagon. On your behalf we have collected and donated 660 pounds of food and $195 in cash to the Williston Community Food Shelf.

We would also like to thank our No. 1 volunteer, Mikayla Morin. We appreciate your generosity and warm welcome when we visit your neighborhood.

We’re glad we live in such a great community, and we’ll be knocking on your door soon.

 

Chris and Joe Castano

Williston Chuck Wagon

Guest column

Sept. 29, 2011

 

Stephen Mount (Courtesy photo)

Editor’s Note: The following thank you letter from the Mount family is in response to events since Williston resident Stephen Mount’s sudden passing on July 2, including a 5k run/ride that took place in his honor on Saturday, Sept. 24.

Steve will be remembered as a wonderful man, husband, father, son, brother and friend but he was truly so much more.  He embraced life with passion and compassion and I see him every day through our children. We plan to keep his memory alive and hope to continue to live our lives as he would want us to. We are going to make him proud!

As you can imagine, the last few months have been extremely difficult for our family, coworkers, friends and the Williston community. His tragic and sudden death (on July 2) still doesn’t seem real and our hearts are filled with a void that will never heal completely. We take comfort in knowing that he was doing what he loved. Our time together was all too brief and so this is a lesson to all of us to enjoy every moment in life; to love deeply, forgive freely, laugh often and don’t sweat the small stuff.

Steve and I would have celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary together on Aug. 4. We were supposed to grow old together but God had other plans for him. Stephen is our hero and will always be a winner in our hearts.

I felt compelled to write this letter to thank each of you for your overwhelming support throughout the last few months. It is a testament to Stephen of all the lives he touched without even knowing it. Our family is forever grateful for your generosity and love. There are so many to thank for the hundreds of cards, beautiful singing at his funeral service and burial, endless yummy meals from the meal train, financial donations to the Mount Family Education Trust, many bouquets of beautiful flowers, delicious fruit baskets, various gift cards, moving eulogies given by his siblings, weekly lawn mowing, getting rid of a huge bee’s nest at our house, staining our front porch, fixing various things around our home and countless messages of support.

A very special thank you to our brother-in-law, Nick, for the beautiful urns he crafted with love, and to Linda Poirier and Patty Pasley for organizing the memorial fun run. We couldn’t have gotten through these last few months without all of you.  We are beginning to put together the pieces to find a path of how we are going to rise stronger from this tragedy.  I do not know what that path is yet, or how to get there, but with time we will find a way. Stephen loved his family, friends, work, community, the Constitution and our country.

There have been several events held in his honor and in his memory, including the Stephen Mount Memorial 5k fun run/ride on Saturday, Sept. 24 to benefit students in Williston. Despite the weather, many of our friends, family and community members came to show their support and love for Stephen, and for the countless hours he dedicated to Williston and the Williston schools — a true tribute to the life he lived and a life well-lived. It was moving to watch all the finishers cross the finish line; smiling and hopefully remembering that he was a man who was so loved by many and will be missed by all who knew him. We hope that he will not be forgotten and that his great works will continue through the hands and hearts of each of us.

I wish I could respond personally to each message on Facebook, email, card and voice message but there are just too many. Please know you are each very special to us, and we are forever grateful for the outpouring of support you have shown our family.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

—Karen Mount, Brittany Mount, Jacob Mount, Ryan Mount and Samantha Ashline

PHOTOS: Chowder challenge

Observer photos by Karen Pike

Aaron Epworth, the executive chef at On Tap Bar and Grill in Essex Junction, won the top awards as both the people’s choice and judges’ choice at the first annual Williston Chowder Challenge on Sept. 18. The event raised close to $4,000 for the Williston Police Officers’ Association and Williston Community Food Shelf.